Jesus' most famous teaching is possibly the Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you (Matthew 7:12). Odd, then, that this is followed immediately by a teaching that can be viewed unfavorably: "Enter at the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and easy is the way that leads to destruction, and many enter there. But narrow is the gate and difficult the way that leads to life, and there are few who find it." (Matthew 7:13-14) Jesus spoke again of a too-narrow entrance when he said that a camel going through the eye of a needle would be easier than for the rich to enter the kingdom of heaven (Matthew 19:24). (We can set aside the various interpretations of the eye of the needle, and stick to the point that, in any case, it was too narrow.)
A "narrow" way is not impossible to pass, but it might require me to carry nothing beyond what is necessary. That was the problem with the rich man who brought on the "eye of the needle" comment: he had much, and loved his worldly things much, and would be sorry to leave them behind. Was he more sorry to leave them behind than to leave Jesus behind? The answer is implied in his actions. The rich man may have been held back by "love" -- specifically, love of things of this world. Sure, there's a lot that comes with that, whether it's safety or comfort or respectability. But a full life does crowd out other things.
And, possibly, this "way" can be made ready. When John the Baptist speaks of preparing the way, he speaks of repentance: turning away from sins and toward God. And Jesus explains to us some paths we cannot afford to take, such as being unforgiving, or judging others.
So when I hear that uncomfortable teaching about the narrow way, I hope to turn my mind to things I can let go, whether it's possessions or pride.
